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Appearance of the third person in the family of two people loving each other always becomes a source of many new problems and, not seldom, even complications. The decision to obtain a child and to become the full-value family is based on a natural desire of spouses. The woman practically never leaves her dreams of child. The motherhood improves her state of health and gives her some spiritual steadiness. For woman of average age, appearance of a kid serves as a stimulus for energetic activities, a source of hopes and parent feelings. This also fills with the new content her all life, rest and happy minutes of love. The men are characterized by somewhat another emergence of such feelings. Having realized the planned model of life (matrimonial relations), the man enters a stage of calmness and relative stability. It is then that he begins to think of his successor, starts to dream of his son. After appearance of the son, he hopes to realize all his dreams not realized during his life. The desire to have just a son who will become in future his friend and comrade is typical for the man, though there are also exceptions: some men say frankly that they only agree to have a daughter. As a rule, the desire of men to have a child arises after 30 years. It certainly does not mean that there are no loving fathers of younger age. Sometimes the parents do not care who will appear: a son or a daughter, which certifies the true harmony in the family. While the married couple is looking forward to emergence of a long-awaited kid, the instinct of the family defender wakes up in the man aimed at protection of the family in any possible way from unnecessary concerns and disturbances. The unprecedented reserves of warmth, tenderness, constant care and feeling of the responsibility for welfare of all the members of his family are opened in him. It is necessary to remember that the first years of the child’s life are the period of formation of his or her emotionality and need in contact and communication with mother, and her love is important for him or her not less than the first-grade nutrition. The child must get from the parents real motherly and fatherly attention and care. The family should create the normal conditions providing a comprehensive development of the child. Simultaneously, it is necessary to understand that the child and everything that is connected with him or her is a huge responsibility laid upon parents. Children grow slow and demand for attention to them during their entire life. The daily care of the child is connected with many troubles and problems, and as the child becomes elder, more and more problems are laid on shoulders of the parents. But having overcome all the difficulties, you will grow up a real personality who will be your support in your life. Love and be happy! |
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